This may not surprise you but I am a fan of chitchats. I love how even the most nonsense chatters pave the way for two or more minds to meet. Conversing, in my opinion, is the best way to let people know what's going on inside your brain. As we converse, we do more than express ourselves; we allow others to stimulate and direct our train of thought with their response. Unlike writing or expressing one's self thru arts where the affect and effect travel down a one-way street, a conversation allows us to get a real-time retort.
Conversation is a noun defined as "informal interchange of thoughts" but there's more to conversation than that. It implies a response and requires mutual respect. It is when the conversationalists move each other and reach for a new horizon from their mutual generosity and acceptance. It is an unrelenting rhythmic movement that causes the birth of a new frenzy or a long-overdue perception or a perplexing revelation; registers shift in a rapid or listless motion and tones vary, depending on the notion.
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Sunday, June 24, 2012
NTS01 : Keep that Edge
The candle that burns twice as bright burns half as long. Keep in mind that overcompensating IS overcompensating. Learn to also value yourself. That's not being selfish, that's saving him from all the crap your insecure self may throw at him. You're not the only one struggling here, okay? If you can't handle yourself well, how can you expect him to tolerate you? Common sense, dude!
Put that emotionally sensitive, needy woman at the back of your car and throw her in the river. I don't ever want to see that demanding, paranoid bitch of a girlfriend ever again!
Figure out how you will change. It can be hard to alter your routines but know that you have to do it. Let go of yourself and let go of him if you want it to work. Remind yourself this: "to each his own" Just have the courage to let go and accept the fact that there are things you cannot control. Je ne sais quoi. It is what it is. He deserves to be free and to live his life apart from the world you built. Let him be a part, not a prisoner, of your world. It will be hard, but you can do it. And do it, you must! :-)
Put that emotionally sensitive, needy woman at the back of your car and throw her in the river. I don't ever want to see that demanding, paranoid bitch of a girlfriend ever again!
Figure out how you will change. It can be hard to alter your routines but know that you have to do it. Let go of yourself and let go of him if you want it to work. Remind yourself this: "to each his own" Just have the courage to let go and accept the fact that there are things you cannot control. Je ne sais quoi. It is what it is. He deserves to be free and to live his life apart from the world you built. Let him be a part, not a prisoner, of your world. It will be hard, but you can do it. And do it, you must! :-)